Sex toys can be a scary area for some people to poke their heads into so we’re going to make it very simple. If you’re new to sex toys don’t go for the 12 inch long black dildo to start with. We know it’s tempting, but you’re much better starting off with something smaller.
Sex toys have come a long way since their inception and there are a lot of different types of sex toys and new innovations on how to make them more pleasurable than ever. Some dildos are specifically made for vaginal penetration, some are specifically made for penetrating males and some of them are multiuse. So how to know which one is the best for you?
The best thing is to go onto a sex shop website and look at the reviews that have been left by the customers there. This will give you the most cohesive idea of the ups and downsides of what you’re looking for. If that isn’t an option for you or if there aren’t enough reviews for you to make up your mind then you need to take a look into different areas.
If you’re getting a sex toy for the first time, you’re going to want to start slow. We would suggest getting a small bullet vibrator to begin with since they are meant for outside use and more than that, they are inexpensive. They generally have three settings and can be used to stimulate both the penis or the clitoris depending on what you’re using it for. We don’t recommend using them to penetrate anything although you can if you’d like. It’s too easy for that tiny little wire that attaches it to the controller to get stretched or to break.
For sex toys that are focused more on the cubs than the cougars you can always look into a cock ring. Make sure that you get one that is either stretchy or properly sized for your penis size since you want to restrict the blood flow to your penis without cutting it off completely. When buying a cock ring for the first time, we would always advise going into the sex shop directly so you can better judge its size and can ask for help should you need it.
There are many cock rings to choose from and you can get ribbed ones for her pleasure or ones that vibrate. Before you put them into use in a sexual situation with your cougar, we would always recommend that cubs try them on themselves first during a solo session. It might seem a little weird at first, but this is both to help you understand how to put the cock ring on yourself and also to get yourself used to the feeling of having it on your body.
It will feel weird to have that constriction there at first and could even affect performance the first time that you wear one.
The last thing that we would suggest if you’re just starting out with sex toys is to get a small vibrating dildo. The reasons for it being a vibrating one is two-fold. It would be a multi-purpose sex toy because you can either use it as a dildo or as a vibrator. If you get a small one then it can be used as a dildo without too much effort and would be a great starter before you move up to the larger ones. If you find that you don’t like using it as a dildo then it can always just default into a vibrator.
If you do like using it as a dildo though, being able to turn on those vibrations can help to give you that little boost that you need in order to get yourself to orgasm.
As always remember to wash your toys thoroughly after you’ve used them and also to use lots of lubricant when you are using a toy that requires penetration. Even if you don’t think that you’ll need it, using lubricant will help to make the experience more enjoyable for everyone.